The Words That Shaped Your Identity Without You Realizing It
Why the labels you hear can quietly become the life you live.

It starts when we grow up and, we are told the first lie, the first label we give ourselves, and what makes us stop.
Be realistic, and then think from who it comes. Imagine the time someone told you, that, are they succesful? Our did their face's look tired, burned out, where they perhaps in a position in where they where content but, never satisfied.
In 1980s there was an experiment in where woman where given fake scars to measure how discrimination impacted the hiring process, but right before the interview started the fake scars where removed.
The woman now entering the interview believing they where scared still acted like it. They reported back on being discriminated against.
The same experiment was done again, in a classroom, in where half of the children where given a different more difficult test.
The first 3 questions made half of them give up while envying believing their dumb seeing the other half succeed.
Discrimination happens more by your "own people" then you might think.
They make you doubt you, make it sound in the languagse of protection.
If you go there you will not make, it. It's better to play safe.
And, so you're trained to wait for premison, and overthink your options.
When we look at people who got success, we notice their delusional.
Take Trump no one would think he's of high intelligence. For the intelligence man, will think each move and, doubt doing anything. The dumb grandious man, will take it. This is why the stupid rule the world, this is why, the most ambisous the narcist, psycopath the often succeed becoming CEO. Often succeed in where other fail.
The smarter you are, the more realistic you become about this world.
Being smarter makes you the go to person, the one that is useful and, often treated like a tool. The one that's isolated. The one that's pressured to do all the work. Judged twice as hard, missunderstood even more.
The dumb, speak the same languagse as the common folk.
It's like this. Say you're very intelligent and:
You speak 20k words. This would rank you in the top 10%
But, the other 90% only will be able to understand 1k. To them you sound like an alien, and will come off as rude, unlikable.
For someone able to speak only 50o. The 99% will understand with ease.
And, we see this back in the wordings of Trump. He is delusional, he speaks with the languagse of a toddler, and has no shame scamming people.
And, yet he has gained success in where most people only could dream off.
That's not, a flaw, that's by design.
You are told, be humble, in class you are told to wait for your turn, to go on break at a certain time.
This is to keep you complient.
This is to keep you in check.
When the elite send their kids to schools the classes and, structure is different.
Then when you do fail, you're told it's on you, you're told you didn't work hard enough. Added the commic above, it shows the principle i'm talking about in very simple images.
Facts:
Wealthy kids are usually healthier. If not, they have access to good health care.
Wealthy kids attend better schools, and are given tutoring and such
Wealthy kids have parents who spend more time with them, or can arrange for others to spend time with them.
Wealthy kids have financial freedom to pursue internships, volunteer or travel
Wealthy kids get financial assistance to start their businesses.
You are told from birth the very lies, that keep us divide as a human species.
What happens when you stop believing them?
About the Creator
Senkora
Using a pen name for now




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