Taboo
FEAR IN THINKING IS THIS ABILITY OR ILLNESS
In a bustling yet lonely city for a man named Benjamin, his life is filled with uniqueness that is difficult to explain to others. Since childhood, he has realized that his mind does not work like most people. His memory and understanding of the world are so sharp, as if his brain is an infinite storage, recording every event in detail that is impossible to forget. He can remember meetings 10 or even 30 years ago, complete with seconds, hours, and words spoken, as if it all happened yesterday.
By Benzaminabout a year ago in Confessions
Rituals, rites and rumours: how women claim power in Zimbabwe’s informal gold mines.
Many men on artisanal or small-scale gold mining sites are uncomfortable working with women in their syndicates because of this commonly held cultural belief, that women “pollute” the sacredness of the mining space.
By Viona Amindaabout a year ago in Confessions
An ode to being lost in life
Because when you just dream about it in your heart, work hard for it and believe in the universe to perform its magic, it conspires in the best-designated ways to make your dreams come true. I have always believed in the higher power, something beyond the fathomable vision of the human eye that beholds us, ties us to our purpose and protects us in times of uncertainty and dejection. It is comforting to know that some mighty and divine force beckons us in moments of need and sometimes all we need to do is let go and have faith. Life in its truest mirth often transcends through the truces of rationalisation and delusion, through the light of knowing exactly what to do and under the traces of pretence which hides the scariest part, not having a single clue as to where your life is going.
By Hridya Sharmaabout a year ago in Confessions
He Knows Brother Enigma:
As I watched the video of Brother Enigma's interview with Chris, I was struck by the weight of his words. "This message that I'm bringing to you is not coming from a man, it comes from the Lord," he said, citing Galatians 1:11-12. But what struck me most about his message was the emphasis on secrecy and the warning that only those who are wise will understand.
By Praiseabout a year ago in Confessions
Revelations and False Prophets
Growing up Protestant, I was taught that revelations were sacred moments — divine messages directly from God. They were celebrated in sermons, testimonies, and small group discussions as proof of His presence in our lives. But my revelation wasn’t met with celebration. It was met with doubt, resistance, and eventually, my questioning of the very faith I’d grown up with.
By Tania Tabout a year ago in Confessions
Breaking Down the Question: "Are You One of Those Feminist Types?" and My Truthful Answer
I experienced being watched long before I understood what feminism meant. I came to see that there was a persistent, ravenous gaze on all women. It establishes the boundaries between right and wrong, specifies the moral patterns a girl must exhibit, and reaffirms our core beliefs. Such surveillance has the peculiar quality of quickly turning inward, turning you into a voyeur of yourself. I spent almost my entire adolescence performing what I thought was most attractive.
By Hridya Sharmaabout a year ago in Confessions
Marriage and Regret: Exploring the Reasons Behind a Common Question
Marriage is often seen as the ultimate symbol of love and commitment, but for some, it can become a source of regret. This emotion, while difficult to confront, is not uncommon. Understanding the reasons behind marital regret can help individuals and couples address issues and potentially find a path forward.
By mureed hussainabout a year ago in Confessions
I Hated Pink.
Pink. For as long as I can remember, the color which made me feel most out of place. Not because of its hue, but because of everything it symbolized. In my household, pink was synonymous with “girly,” “pretty,” and “proper”. These were all qualities I was expected to embody but never truly felt I could.
By Tania Tabout a year ago in Confessions
Sex, intimacy and black middle-class Christianity in South Africa - a difficult history.
How were views of intimacy shaped before colonialism? Before colonialism in the 1700s, black South Africans viewed sex and its relationship to morality very differently than it’s viewed today. Views of intimacy were largely shaped by the expectations of the extended family. When a young man married, his family transferred ilobolo (bridewealth) to a young woman’s family as an acknowledgement of the joining of families. Ilobolo cemented families together and introduced a bride not only into her husband’s extended family or lineage, but also to his family’s ancestors.
By Viona Amindaabout a year ago in Confessions
Learn from Your Mistakes: The Art of Growth and Wisdom
Learn from Your Mistakes: The Art of Growth and Wisdom Life is a never-ending journey of learning and experiences. Along this journey, mistakes are inevitable. Some may be small, easily forgotten; others may seem monumental, leaving a lasting imprint. Often, we find ourselves blaming, ridiculing, or undermining our worth due to these mistakes. However, mistakes are not signs of failure; they are stepping stones toward maturity, growth, and wisdom. They are the foundation upon which we build our understanding of life, steering us toward better paths and brighter futures.
By Dipak Pawarabout a year ago in Confessions
