breakups

When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.

What Did I Do Wrong?
“You are so selfish, so inconsiderate!” “I would never do that to you.” “You just don’t know how to love someone.” “You never make time for us. It’s always YOU.”
By Yvonne Castaneda7 years ago in Humans
The Explanation that You Wanted but Will Never Get
Ideally, you were quite perfect for me. You’re a very kind person, honest, caring, smart, talented and honestly, intimidatingly good at everything. You made me feel very safe and comfortable very quickly. You made me laugh and always remembered to say things that would light up my mood all the time when we were still together. Until out of nowhere, I told you we were finished.
By C.J.B7 years ago in Humans
I Hope One Day We Can Meet Again
Dear SD, Tomorrow, I’ll miss you a little more than I do today. And as the days turn into months, my mind will struggle to adapt to the absence of you, the change in my routine. But next year, along with new hopes and promises, I hope it brings you once again. If not, I wish you all the best this world could give. I’ll pray for you on the days that I don't pray for myself.
By Babygirl T7 years ago in Humans
Surviving Toxic Relationships
How can one person that you put on this pedestal just let you down? How could one person that you “loved” so much end up hurting you so badly? Manipulative relationships could be the hardest thing to get over, but I don’t regret mine at all. He is the one person that I am so happy I met, but I never want him in my life again. He taught me everything about relationships. He was my first real boyfriend. The first real person to truly show an interest in me, and I held onto that because I thought that I would never find someone else that is romantically interested in me. However, I slowly started to learn (with the help of an amazing therapist and support system) that I do I deserve better than some boy yelling at me, calling me a bitch, and giving me the silent treatment.
By MarisaKaye7 years ago in Humans
Tonight, You Had Me. Top Story - August 2019.
I often wonder what it would be like if I stayed by your side, if we never broke up. My apartment felt empty the minute you left, and I stuffed your portion of the bed with silence and alcohol.
By Beatrice7 years ago in Humans
To the Best Friend I Thought Would Never Hurt Me: Thanks for Breaking My Heart
I confided in you, told you all my fears, my dreams, everything. You let me believe that opening up was going to be okay, that opening up to you was going to be a good thing.
By Sierra Lynn7 years ago in Humans
Does Having Disabilities Affect Your Relationship?
Here's my story of one relationship I was in. I thought I found the right woman, but it didn't turn out too well. I was always very shy, quiet, and nervous. I don't always do well with conversations or in a large group of people or out in public. I was diagnosed with Dyslexia, Dysgraphia, Dyscalculia, and Attention deficit disorder as a kid. So I didn't have much of a good childhood if you know what I mean. I wasn't any good at talking to girls either. I didn't start having girlfriends until I was seventeen. But that's not what I want to talk about today.
By Mac783217 years ago in Humans
Blank Space
As I sit here, in our old coffee shop, a flood of emotions have emerged. I see a dream, beautiful yet a typical one. We are ordering ice tea! You telling me “Yeek! I don't like ice tea,” and I say “Just sip a bit, you'll love it." With our typical jokings, typical love talkies, scolding people I don't like. Smiling, laughing taking selfies. I keep seeing this dream.
By Chathumini Sam7 years ago in Humans
All or Nothing Kind
Sometimes, we meet people who sparked and shined brighter than anyone else. For the lucky ones, they stay and end up together. For the unlucky ones, like you and me, it is fleeting. Perfect for a moment and gone the next.
By C.J.B7 years ago in Humans
Falling out of Love and Why It Hurts More Than Getting Your Heart Broken
All the movies and books and songs talk about falling in love. It is all romanticized... hyper-romanticized. But what about falling out of love? Why don't more people talk about that?
By ALI RAE7 years ago in Humans
How to Deal with Loss
It can be a death, it can be a break up, it can be anything. In life, there will be a few times in which people leave. And it will always hurt. Here's some advice to try and lessen the pain and grow. This will be broken up into sections, so if you're here for a specific reason, skim through and try to find what you need. Breathe in, breathe out. Ready? Let's begin.
By Jacob Harold7 years ago in Humans
But I Still Love You...
I loved you because you wanted me. You chose me above the rest of the world. You were 100 percent certain. Not only that, but you knew how to love me in exactly the way I yearned for. It was perfect. I loved everything about you. Our similarities were mind blowing and our chemistry was powerful. You told me all the dreams i'd been dreaming all my life like they could be real. It was all your idea, and I was ever so happy to be swept up in it all. That’s how it was for a while, and then things began to change.
By Sunny Ray7 years ago in Humans